Myths About What It Means To Be A Manager

9 February 2025

Certain myths about what it means to be a manager and how the role is performed are common. As you approach your work as a manager, consider the five myths commonly held by first-time managers and avoid costly mistakes.


Myths and Truths

 
  Myth Truth Action
Myth 1 I'll use the same skills I used as an individual contributor. The skills required to be successful as a manager are very different from the skills required to be successful as an individual contributor. Work to develop your people skills in particular. Concentrate on developing excellent communication skills – including negotiating, coaching, and motivating skills. Organizational and leadership skills are also important.
Myth 2 I'll use my power to get results. Credibility is how you'll get results. You can build your credibility by

  • listening more than you talk
  • consistently demonstrating character by doing the right thing
  • using influence to get others to do the right thing
Myth 3 I'll have much more freedom. You'll have less freedom. Manage successfully in spite of having less freedom by

  • building a network of mutually beneficial relationships with people your team depends on to do its work
  • sharing your power
  • exchanging valued resources
Myth 4 I can learn the job through training. On-the-job experience is how you'll learn to be a manager. Learn through on-the-job experience by

  • reflecting on your experience
  • gathering feedback about your performance
  • identifying probable challenges
Myth 5 I need to focus on forging good individual relationships. Focusing on individual relationships will negatively impact the team's morale and performance. Focus on forging a strong relationship with the team by using group forums to solve problems and to provide motivation and support.